Sexuality refers to the set of behaviors that affect sexual life ( desires, pleasures, frustrations ...). Many aspects come into play, and sometimes in conflict: pleasure, procreation, health, but also relational and social aspects, legal, moral prohibitions, but also deviant behavior.
The discovery of sexualityIt is above all the discovery of one's own body. In men, sexuality often begins with the discovery of solitary pleasure. For a young boy, masturbation is easily discovered; he can see his sex, touch him, observe erections. He will find that this contact is pleasant. Thus, men discover early self-erotic caresses.
In women, the paths of this discovery are often complex because the female sex is less obvious, more hidden. For cultural reasons as well maybe ...
Male sexuality and female sexuality
The sexual cycle of the man ending in orgasm (excitation, erection, ejaculation) is faster than that of the woman (excitation, lubrication, orgasm). In man, a localized excitement at the sexual zone is usually enough to lead to pleasure, unlike the woman who needs her whole body eroticized to feel an excitement.
A fulfilling sexuality
Sexuality is the essential meeting place for the harmony of the couple. A fulfilling sexuality is a satisfying sexuality for everyone, respectful of the partner, enriching for the couple.
Monotony is, without a doubt, one of the greatest dangers of the couple. Also, after a number of years together, both men and women must cultivate their relationship to prevent their sexuality from falling into monotony, and thus avoid "sexual drowsiness". Cultivating eroticism on a daily basis to maintain sexual desire, not to censure one's fantasies, to vary places and positions are all solutions that will help maintain desire within the couple.
On the other hand, orgasm should not be considered as the sole purpose of sexuality; foreplay is an integral part of sexual intercourse. Sexuality can not be complete without them.
Finally, if there is one area where the human being can, and must accept to lose control of his body, it is that of sexuality; a fulfilling sexuality goes through the abandonment of oneself, both mentally and physically (keeping, of course, in mind that it is advisable to remain respectful of one's partner).
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